Kat here! Halloween will be our first anniversary. Yep- Last year on October 31st we were married in the courthouse, walked across the street and voted for Obama, and then had an amazing lunch at Peasant Village. I tell people that if I hadn’t married Gary, he would have been my best friend and I would have been secretly in love with him. I lucked out and became Mrs. Bunker.
There is a great cohesion between us. Our former marriages had similar lengths and our foolish pride kept us hanging in way beyond our former unions’ expiration dates. So we had the same wounds, the same concerns and the same longings. I’m not saying it is formulaic, but I believe it helped that we stood on the same ground when we met. Still no arguments, name-calling, raised voices or passive aggressive actions… just loads of affection, great conversation and always, always- missing each other terribly when we are apart. In our future are vacation plans to California, another cruise and moving in the next couple of years (possibly out of state!). We rock! Love rocks! Go Bearcat!